LEADERS ARE GLORIOUSLY AND WASTEFULLY GENEROUS

What makes you deeply joyful - giving or taking?

As a leader you possess the created capacity and responsibility to be generous as God is generous, dispensing the sacrificial generosity of God to those around you by being supremely and wastefully generous with your time, talent, and treasure.

And how is it that this person has never given me one of her quilts?

In their beautiful, award-winning, picture book, The Quiltmaker’s Gift, [i] Jeff Brumbeau and Gail de Marcken tell the enchanting story of a very powerful and greedy king who, with the help of a little old quiltmaker, learned how to excel in the grace of giving.

In fact, this king was good, very good, at being greedy. Every Christmas and every birthday (which he celebrated twice each year) the king demanded that his subjects lavish astonishingly beautiful and magical gifts upon him.

Oh how the king loved his possessions!

He kept an accurate and detailed inventory of each one. From top to bottom, every nook and cranny of his castle was filled with the magnificent gifts he had received.

But the king was not happy.

He never smiled.

He was never satisfied.

He kept looking for that one perfect gift that would finally make him happy.

One day the king learned about a quiltmaker who lived in her little cottage in the mountains – high above the clouds. Throughout the world, people said that this quiltmaker made the brightest and prettiest quilts that anyone had ever seen.

Curiously, though, she never sold her quilts. People came from all over the world with pockets full of money to buy her magnificent quilts. Yet, no matter how hard they tried. She would not sell even one. No amount of gold or silver could change her mind. Instead, she always took her quilts to the town and gave them to the downtrodden and homeless. Then she would start another, and then another, only to give each one away.

The king demanded one of these magnificent quilts.

And how is it that this person has never given me one of her quilts? he bellowed.

But the quiltmaker refused. Several times the king threatened her. But again and again the quiltmaker refused. On one occasion the king threw the quiltmaker into the cave of a hungry bear. On another occasion the king placed her on a tiny, deserted island. Still, the quiltmaker refused to give the king one of her extraordinary quilts.

Eventually, in desperation, the king shouted, I give up! What must I do for you to give me a quilt?

In response, the quiltmaker finally promised to make the king a quilt, on one condition. He had to give away everything he owned to the poor. The king was stunned. Give away everything? Every one of his treasured gifts? What an absurd idea! The king dearly loved each and every one of his gifts. How could he possibly give them away? How could he even give one?

But finally, he gave in. He began ever so slowly at first. Starting with his smaller treasures, the king gave them away one by one. To his astonishment, he began to experience pleasure – not in receiving gifts – but in giving them away. Little by little he began to smile – and even laugh as he emptied his castle.

Soon his happiness turned into a deep, satisfying joy.

Even so, he could not understand how it was possible that he could experience such happiness by giving away his treasured possessions. But soon, the king was giving away his gifts by the wagonload.

He excelled in the grace of giving, becoming overwhelmed with inexpressible joy.

It took years for the king to give away everything. He went everywhere. He gave everyone he saw a gift. Soon there was not a person in his kingdom who had not received a gift from him. What joy filled his soul as he traded his treasures for smiles!

Finally, tired, tattered, and torn, the weary king returned home – poor – with holes in the toes of his boots. He had traveled all over the world giving away his treasures. Nevertheless, his eyes glittered with joy and his laugh had grown wonderful and thunderous. At last, he was happy.

Though poor, he felt like he was the richest person in the world.

The king kept his promise to the quiltmaker. He gave every one of his beautiful gifts away. And the quiltmaker kept her promise to the king and gave him one of the most beautiful quilts she had ever made. You see, the quiltmaker also kept her promise to herself – giving her quilts only to the poor. She stayed true to her calling; she excelled in the grace of giving.

Curiously, the king returned to the town only to give away his beautiful quilt to one he found shivering in the cold of night. The quiltmaker continued to make her magnificent quilts. From time to time the king would go to the quiltmaker’s little cottage high above the clouds and at night, take them down to the town, and give them to the poor and downtrodden.

As this wonderful parable ends, it is said that the king was ...never happier than when he was giving something away.

So - I ask you again - what makes you deeply and satisfyingly joyful? Giving? Taking?

You see, glorious and wasteful generosity is a mark of the effective leader!

You are generous.

You are a leader.

This is the truth about leadership.

This is the Genesis Principle of Leadership.

[i] Brumbeau, Jeff and De Marcken, Gail, The Quiltmaker’s Gift, Scholastic Press, 2001.